Writings and resources to help you flourish.
“Bibliotherapy is a term that describes the very real process of being positively and therapeutically influenced by what you read.” —Pete Walker
Couples Therapy Homework: Soften Your Startup
Discover better ways to communicate hurt feelings and get your needs met.
Couples Therapy Homework: Identifying Your Part With Parts Work
Understand your protective and vulnerable parts in context of your relationships.
Couples Therapy Homework: Challenging Relationship Assumptions
In relationships, it's common for us to misinterpret our partner's behavior as being directly about us.
Couples Therapy Homework: Active Listening
Empathic listening helps partners feel heard and valued, which strengthens emotional bonds and trust.
Couples Therapy Homework: Building Tolerance
If you can’t even think about your partner’s inability to be on time without losing it, this exercise is crucial.
Couples Therapy Homework: Core Vulnerabilities Journaling
Understanding your partner's vulnerabilities and triggers is crucial for fostering a healthy and supportive relationship.
Getting at The Roots of Trauma with EMDR
When it comes to addressing trauma, many therapeutic approaches focus on treating and managing the symptoms—like anxiety, depression, or behavioral issues—arising from past experiences. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), however, goes a step further. It aims to target the root of the trauma...
The Pursuer / Withdrawer Dynamic in Relationships
The most common problem I see as a couples therapist
Therapist Podcast Episodes for General Relationship Health
The podcast episodes I recommend the most as a couples therapist .